YYY!

Hi, dear. i should be able to cope on my own.

Very stressed thinking of starting to deal with the legal side of things, but it has to be done, sooner the better.

My friend YS helped emailed Ben before my delivery to inform him about the cesarean date. Not surprisingly, he didn't bother until now. Not only that, his mum called YS's mum to defend themselves, saying i'm a bad woman who quarrelled with her, ben is a simple kampung boy and i seduced him!

Copied below is her email to me.

Pls pray for me, that the legal procedure will be smooth, i'll get a good settlement, and most importantly, baby will get a passport/ british nationality asap. otherwise, i really don't know how i can go back for ur wedding. i discussed with our aunts, they don't think i should leave the baby here for someone to take care of while i go back alone for ur wedding. Anyway, that's sept, hopefully all's done and well by then.

Will see if i can find time to call u soon.

U know ppl always say all parents think their child/baby is the cutest? they are all wrong, for only my baby is indeed the cutest in this world!

My favourite past time is to just look at him when he is sleeping (not when he's crying)

Love,

Sis

YS's email to me:

Dear, Really happy for you! Sure you are savouring the sweetness you have paid so much for. I really like the baby being called YYY. So cute, imagine next time when he starts talking he will be asking so many questions that you will be too busy to answer eg Why is the bird flying???? Why is the sky blue????????? Why is the doggie barking ??????? etc etc :) Too cute. Hey, I really don't know Ben's father is called Ivan. What a waste :p It really took a while for me to decide telling you the outcome of sending Ben the mail. After ~1 week I sent the mail to him, my mum recieved a call from Ben's mother. She was trying to defend herself and the family about the whole thing. She told my mum you quarreled with her and seduced Ben (as how you describe last time), that Ben was just a 'simple kampung boy'. My mum just listened and didn't make any comments. She later thought my mail shouldn't have mentioned the mother's name which may have prompted the mother to call and defend. (I just stated 'I undersatnd aunt Hope may have played a part in decision making'....) Otherwise I have been trying to be polite and soft in writing the mail. I was very furious and disappointed in Ben that for a 30 y/o guy to tell all details of a friend's letter to the mum. My mum later said it will be the right thing to ditch such guy who cannot make up his own mind. We are still on your side, because we believe Ben shouldn't have run away from his responsibilities, didn't matter whever the mum said. These happened before your delivary. I didn't feel like telling you at the time because I still had a small hope that Ben would turn up. But he did not, unfortunately. As friends, Nick and I have lost faith in him. Hope you can come out from his shadow soon. I am sure baby YYY will make you happier day by day, and you will soon find someone who really loves you and willing to sacrifice for you and your baby. take care and Happy New Year! Look forward to a better year!